So guys I talked to Ching Chong today about the sex and boundaries issue today during breakfast. Let me give you some background though.

>Get home on Friday
>Ching Chong wants sex
>Have sex
>Again
>Post CD incident on blog
>Sleeping in bed with Ching Chong
>She grabs my cock and starts giving me a hand job
>Try to say I don't really want or need one right now
>She slaps me and yells at me until I let her continue
>Finishes and eventually we drift off to sleep
>Wake up on Saturday, go to work, okay day
>Come back home
>Ching Chong's face when

>Sex
>More sex
>Feeble protest
>Angry yelling
>More sex
>Penis feels sore
>Sunday
>Repeat Saturday
>Monday comes around only have sex once because I couldn't achieve an erection after

So that's where we were at today. Well I figured I needed to stand up and try and lay some rules and limitations. It went...uh...oddly.

>Sit down to breakfast
>Ching Chong is talking about weather, spoiler it's hot for fall
>Anyways I just out and ask why she's been so hyper-sexual
>She becomes concerned and thinks I'm not getting physical pleasure from her
>Asks what she can do to make me have a better time
>Tell that her technique is fine I just don't think we should have so much sex
>She becomes despondent
>Tells me I should just go fuck my "new whore"
>Stands up and runs to her room
>Da fuck
>Slowly stand up and walk to her room
>Her door is closed but I can hear loud sobs from behind it
>Knock on her door
>She yells at me to go find my whore
>Knock again
>no response
>Knock again
>no response
>Open the door
>A large plastic bag lies on the floor and I see her on her bed crying into a pile of my lost boxers
>Walk over to her and try to put a hand on her shoulder
>She shys away and clutches the boxer pile tightly
>Sigh and sit down on the bed
>Ask her if she knows I love her
>Small sound I can't make out
>Ask her again
>quiet yes comes out between sobs
>Tell her that I would never cheat on her and that I would never let anything hurt here
>She pulls her face out of the boxers, eyes red and puffy
>Ask here to tell me what's bothering her

To give you guys the short version
>Her Mother gets pregnant with her
>Doesn't want to have sex with father while pregnant
>Father goes out and commits adultery
>Ching Chong is born, adultery still continues, mother is aware of it
>Father wanted a son, is disappointed in the mother and Ching Chong, becomes an ass
>Mother displaces her aggression onto Ching Chong
>Ching Chong has crappy childhood
>Eventually discovers her father's adultery when she's eleven
>See's him with his mistress in public
>Tells mother, mother tells Ching Chong to forget what she saw
Ching Chong presses the issue
>Mother gets angry and hits Ching Chong, tells Ching Chong it's her fault
>Lack of sex drove her father into the arms of another woman and thus blames her pregnancy with Ching Chong instead of the cheating husband
>A few years pass, Ching Chong gets a boyfriend
>He turns out to be an ass as well
>Pressures Ching Ching to let him take pictures of her naked
>Tries to pressure her into sex
>Ching chong wants to wait until they're older
>He sends everyone nudes
>Entire school calls her a slut
>Parents call her a whore, punish her physically

So in conclusion Ching Chong's recent hyper-sexuality came about as a response to my low sex drive. She thought that it represented a loss of interest in her and that to maintain the relationship she would have to drown me in sex. This is a learned behavior from her boyfriend. She didn't have sex and thus faced positive punishment by being made into a school slut and well as the punishment from her parents. Thus the lack of sex was discouraged. Hyper-sexuality was further promoted by the model of her parents relationship. The lack of sex from her mother elicited a negative punishment to her mother in the loss of her relation to her husband. It also gave Ching Chong a positive punishment in the form of a beating. Because of this she has a predisposition to high levels of sexual activity under the belief that it is needed for Females to maintain Male partners. Yeah fucked up story. Not sure when I'll post on here again. Really going to need to talk to Ching Chong about this and try to help.